Strengthen Your Relationship

Expert couples therapy designed to help you build deeper connection, resolve conflicts, and rediscover intimacy.

About Dr. SeyedJamaleddin Nabavi

Professional Credentials

Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC) | Canadian Clinical Counsellor (CCC)

PhD in Clinical Counselling (Iran)

15+ Years Experience Couples Specialist Evidence-Based Trauma-Informed Bilingual (English & Farsi)

Clinical Counsellor specializing in Couples Therapy

With over 15 years of clinical experience, I specialize in helping couples navigate challenges, improve communication, and strengthen their emotional bonds.

My approach combines evidence-based therapeutic techniques with compassionate, judgment-free support. I believe every relationship deserves the opportunity to thrive.

I work with couples at all stagesβ€”from those looking to strengthen their bond to those facing significant challenges like infidelity, communication breakdowns, disconnection, and midlife transitions.

Bilingual counselling: I provide culturally-sensitive therapy in both English and Farsi, serving diverse communities in BC.

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Therapeutic Approach

Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

Helps couples understand emotional patterns beneath conflict and rebuild secure attachment.

Gottman Method

Evidence-based approach teaching practical tools to manage conflict and build intimacy.

Attachment Theory

Explores how attachment patterns influence relationships and helps develop secure connections.

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy

Identifies unhelpful patterns and helps couples develop healthier ways of responding.

Somatic Therapy

Recognizes stress lives in the body; helps couples regain felt safety and connection.

Trauma-Informed Care

Specializes in how past trauma impacts relationships and helps couples heal together.

Start With a Free 15-Minute Consultation

Not sure if couples therapy is right for you? Let's talk about your situation.

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πŸ“ Session Options

In-Person: Coquitlam & Vancouver, BC

Online: Throughout BC

Flexible: Weekday, evening & weekend available

πŸ’° Session Details

Duration: 60 minutes

Many extended health insurance plans cover counselling

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What to Expect in Your First Session

  1. Initial Assessment: I'll listen to both perspectives to understand your history and current challenges.
  2. Understanding Patterns: We'll explore recurring patterns that keep you stuck and the underlying needs.
  3. Goal Setting: Together we'll identify what you want and what success looks like.
  4. Action Steps: I'll provide practical tools you can use between sessions.
  5. Ongoing Support: Most couples benefit from weekly sessions for 8-12 weeks, then adjust as needed.

What Clients Say

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"Dr. Nabavi completely transformed how we communicate. We went from constant arguing to actually listening to each other. He gave us practical tools we use every day."

- Sarah & Michael

Completed 10-week couples therapy program

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"After 15 years of marriage, we had lost our connection. The tools we learned made such a difference. We feel reconnected and hopeful about our future."

- Jessica & David

Completed 12-week reconnection program

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"Professional, compassionate, and genuinely invested. He creates a safe space where both partners feel heard. Highly recommend!"

- Emma & James

Ongoing couples therapy for 6+ months

Frequently Asked Questions

How long does couples therapy typically take? +
Most couples see improvements within 8-12 weekly sessions. Duration varies based on your goals. Some benefit from 6-8 sessions, others prefer ongoing support.
Is therapy covered by insurance? +
Many extended health insurance plans cover counselling. Check with your provider or contact me to discuss your coverage options.
What if my partner doesn't want therapy? +
I offer individual sessions to help you understand dynamics and develop strategies. Individual work often inspires partners to join later.
Can you help with infidelity recovery? +
Yes. I specialize in helping couples navigate emotional aftermath, rebuild safety, and make informed decisions about their relationship.
Do you offer online sessions? +
Yes, I offer secure online sessions via Zoom for couples throughout BC. Online therapy is just as effective and offers scheduling flexibility.
How confidential is therapy? +
Your privacy is paramount. I maintain strict confidentiality under professional ethics guidelines. Limited exceptions include safety concerns or court order.

Articles & Resources

Resources for couples navigating midlife transitions and relationship challenges

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January 2025

Financial Stress and Your Relationship: Managing Money Conflicts at Midlife

Money is the #1 cause of marital conflict at midlife. Learn how to approach financial conversations without blame, align on priorities, and reduce money-related stress.

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January 2025

Parenting in the Middle Years: How to Keep Your Marriage Strong

When children are teenagers and young adults, parenting dynamics shift dramatically. Discover how to reconnect with your partner and co-parent effectively.

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January 2025

Rekindling Intimacy at 40, 50, and Beyond

Sexual intimacy changes at midlife. Explore how hormonal shifts, body image concerns, and emotional connection directly impact physical intimacy in your relationship.

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January 2025

The Midlife Crisis Myth: Is Your Partner Really Having a Breakdown?

Not all midlife distress is a "crisis." Learn to distinguish between normal life transitions and genuine mental health concerns that need professional support.

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January 2025

The Sandwich Generation: Caring for Parents While Nurturing Your Marriage

Caught between aging parents and adult children? Learn strategies to prevent caregiver burden from destroying your relationship.

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January 2025

Rebuilding After Infidelity: Trust, Forgiveness, and Moving Forward

Infidelity at midlife carries unique triggers and challenges. Explore how couples can process betrayal, rebuild trust, and decide whether to stay or separate.